Here's an article from a psychologist to debunk the twin flame ezo trend that has been everywhere lately.
A twin flame is commonly spoken of as someone whom one quickly feels fast chemistry but may more realistically struggle with a sense of self, healthy boundaries, automatic trust, personal independence, personal power, internalizing core values, and understanding concepts of compatibility which often comes with life experience and/or being modeled and taught this as a child
A woo-woo professional using woo-woo bullsh1t to prove that another woo-woo bullsh1t is indeed a woo-woo bullsh1t. What a fascinating modern age we live in.
In the end the article circles to the usual therapy cliche...
Relationship with self is a practice: every day we practice being in a relationship with ourselves.
...Where the relationships you get are the reflection of the relationship you have with yourself.
Sure! Or the reflection of your skin color, ethnicity, class origin or neurotype.
Healthy, well-adjusted and socially functioning people don't see each other as eternal souls rooted in god. They see each other reduced into a couple of rudimentary and arbitrary characteristics that in our society tend to be stand-ins for either power or vulnerability. Could be your skin color, could be your outfit, could be whether you move with a pack of similarly looking people around you vs alone.
In relatively rich countries, people from middle class and up are safe to check out and just not notice other people while also being generally ignored and left in peace. This is the effect of relative wealth and privilege spread quite well through society, and it is how psycho twats like this one come about spewing soulful bullsh1t.
Here in Brazil, checking out in public is not an option because of the extremely rampant opportunistic crime in this country. Checking out in personal relationships is generally a bad idea unless you are someone extremely well connected who, if done dirty, could actually take meaningful revenge. Having a good heart without having the social standing to keep people in check pretty much makes you dead-on-arrival.
There are so many people who are more than happy to dedicate months of their life to grooming you just so that they could get the entertainment and power trip of breaking your trust, then trying to convince you to trust them again, so that they could cause you psychological pain once more, and then again, and then again.
- If you went no-contact with your family and are on your own, they will go after you no matter how much you love yourself.
- If you are autistic and take people at their word, they will go after you no matter how much you love yourself.
- If you overcame something difficult and now you give people slack because you understand how hard life sometimes is, they will go after you no matter how much you love yourself.
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